Would an infinite being truly choose this?

October 28th, 2011 12:29pm - Posted By: Anne Maxwell, LCSW, RPT-S

I wanted to pass on some home play activities from last Monday's 10 Keys to Joyful Parenting teleclass!

Home play: Anytime you are upset or out of sorts or frustrated or… ask:  “Would an infinite being truly choose this?”  If what you get is “No,” then ask yourself:  “Then for what reason would I?”  See if anything shifts in your world!  Do you make different choices?

Also, when your child is wanting something from you or wanting to give you information and you don’t know in the moment what to do, ask:  “Hey, what do you need here?”  Trust that you will have an awareness of what that is.  When you do, you can use the clearing statement (for more information on the clearing statement  - click here):  Everything that doesn’t allow her to have total ease with ….. (what ever her struggle is), can we destroy and uncreate it all times a godzillion please?  Right, wrong, good, bad, all 9, POD, POC, shorts, boys and beyonds.  

(Godzillion is a number SO big that only God knows how big!)

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Becoming a Walking Question

October 14th, 2011 4:54pm - Posted By: Anne Maxwell, LCSW, RPT-S

For those of you who may not know,  Access Consciousness™ was founded by Gary Douglas over 20 years ago.  Access Consciousness™ is weird, wacky and unlike anything I have ever come across!  It is not a structured organization.  It can provide you with practical tools and processes to use to bring you to an awareness that you can function in your life with ease and joy, no matter what occurs.  Specifically, no matter what happens at home, no matter what your child says or does or does not say or do, you can apply any one or more these tools and processes Here's an amazing excerpt from Conscious Parents Conscious Kids to illustrate Access.

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Conscious Parents Ask Questions by Glenna Rice

"Conscious and aware kids create ease and joy for their parents, and conscious, aware parents create ease and joy for their children. The more awareness you, as a parent, can facilitate in a family, the more joy and ease everyone receives. The more access tools my children learn, the easier it becomes to create my life. And a parent wouldn’t want more ease for what reason?

How do you create more ease as a parent? You ask questions. You become a walking question.  You ask your children things like, “Is there something else you could choose?” “What else is possible?” “Is there another way you could be with this?” “Hey kids, this doesn’t work for me. What else is possible?” Once you start asking, you – and your children – begin to receive information and difficult situations begin to change.

Children are brilliant. They want to make us happy and they have so much awareness and knowing to gift us. Everything can change when we stop parenting from limitation and begin to ask kids what they know that we don’t know, that if we did, would change our lives and create an extraordinary family.
When you, as a parent, are willing to always be in the question with your children, you find ways of handling things with greater ease. When you ask questions, situations don’t feel solid, heavy and hopeless. No issue or problem seems too big to solve.

You start to have more allowance for your children, for your skills as a parent and for yourself. Things that were significant and troubling start to barely faze you.

One of the many great questions I have been asked is, “What if having children is part of creating an extraordinary life?” It has become one of the many questions I use to create my family and my life."

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How does it get any better than that? If you'd like to learn more about these tools and processes and applying them to create more ease and joy in your life, consider joining me at my upcoming teleclass: 10 Keys to Joyful Parenting. If you are wondering whether or not to take the 10 week teleclass, there is a tool we talked about on the introductory call that you could use.  It is:  the truth will make you feel lighter.  You could ask yourself:  If I take this teleclass, will it expand my life? Then, see what your body tells you.  If you feel lighter, chances are it will!!  

Click here for more information on the 10 Keys to Joyful Parenting or to register.

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10 Keys to Joyful Parenting

October 7th, 2011 3:30pm - Posted By: Anne Maxwell, LCSW, RPT-S

What if there were 10 simple tools that you could use to create the life you have always desired to have with your children?

What if you could have freedom from the limitations and expectations that you have taken on from other people – your parents, teachers, friends, grandparents, siblings, mentors?  What if you could have the freedom to create your life with your children and/or your spouse in a way that works for all of you?  What if it were possible to have more peace and ease in your relationships with your children?  If there was a set of simple guidelines that could change how you parent and could enable you to have what you have been asking for, would you use it?

This set of guidelines does exist! It was developed by Gary Douglas, founder of Access Consciousness ™.  Gary describes the constraints he was given growing up as including what he refers to as “implants.”  He says that implants are points of view that are impelled at us by others, often especially by our parents.  He is quick to acknowledge that our parents did the best they could with the information they had available to them at the time.  Nonetheless, he says these points of view run our lives, even though they are not ours!

The 10 keys to joyful parenting are:
1 - Ask:  “Would an infinite being truly choose this?”  
2 - Everything is just an interesting point of view.
3 - Live in 10 second increments.
4 - Live as the question (not as the answer).
5 - No form, no structure, no significance.
6 - No judgment, no discrimination, no discernment.
7 - No drugs of any kind.
8 - No competition.
9 - Do not listen to, tell or buy the story.
10 - No exclusion.

Do they sound odd?  Don’t they fly in the face of what most of us were taught and what most of us believe to be true about our lives and this reality and how it works? I'm going to be going in depth into each of these keys during a 10 week teleclass, from October 24th to December 26th. If you're curious to check it out, join me for a free teleclass on October 17th from 12pm - 1pm as I introduce the subject (Click here for more info or to register).

If you are getting the idea that there may be more to these simple statements than meets the eye and that learning how to use them just might give you something you have been looking for, you might wish to consider this teleclass. You could ask:  “If I take this class, will it expand my relationship with my children?  Will it expand my relationship with my family?  Will it expand my life?”  If it feels light, it’s probably true for you! I can't wait!!
 

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