10 Keys to Joyful Parenting

October 7th, 2011 3:30pm - Posted By: Anne Maxwell, LCSW, RPT-S

What if there were 10 simple tools that you could use to create the life you have always desired to have with your children?

What if you could have freedom from the limitations and expectations that you have taken on from other people – your parents, teachers, friends, grandparents, siblings, mentors?  What if you could have the freedom to create your life with your children and/or your spouse in a way that works for all of you?  What if it were possible to have more peace and ease in your relationships with your children?  If there was a set of simple guidelines that could change how you parent and could enable you to have what you have been asking for, would you use it?

This set of guidelines does exist! It was developed by Gary Douglas, founder of Access Consciousness ™.  Gary describes the constraints he was given growing up as including what he refers to as “implants.”  He says that implants are points of view that are impelled at us by others, often especially by our parents.  He is quick to acknowledge that our parents did the best they could with the information they had available to them at the time.  Nonetheless, he says these points of view run our lives, even though they are not ours!

The 10 keys to joyful parenting are:
1 - Ask:  “Would an infinite being truly choose this?”  
2 - Everything is just an interesting point of view.
3 - Live in 10 second increments.
4 - Live as the question (not as the answer).
5 - No form, no structure, no significance.
6 - No judgment, no discrimination, no discernment.
7 - No drugs of any kind.
8 - No competition.
9 - Do not listen to, tell or buy the story.
10 - No exclusion.

Do they sound odd?  Don’t they fly in the face of what most of us were taught and what most of us believe to be true about our lives and this reality and how it works? I'm going to be going in depth into each of these keys during a 10 week teleclass, from October 24th to December 26th. If you're curious to check it out, join me for a free teleclass on October 17th from 12pm - 1pm as I introduce the subject (Click here for more info or to register).

If you are getting the idea that there may be more to these simple statements than meets the eye and that learning how to use them just might give you something you have been looking for, you might wish to consider this teleclass. You could ask:  “If I take this class, will it expand my relationship with my children?  Will it expand my relationship with my family?  Will it expand my life?”  If it feels light, it’s probably true for you! I can't wait!!
 

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